What Do You Get When You Fall In Love?

It's the last day of my weekends. Guess I am getting lazy to go to work on Sunday. With less than 10 days before my event, Lets hope there's last minute booking.

I have sit down together with group of friends over the weekends. Chilling out for Starbucks like I always does every weekends. The conversation based on our daily work tasks, things we have seen for the past 5 days, things occurs to us everyday and suddenly; One of us has popped the topic on what do we get when we fall in love.

This is something that I will never expect from him. The subject was obviously simple. What do we get? but the answer are not as simple as the question. Love is subjective and each of people have the different perception on love. It turned out that he's was head over heels on one girl he met before. Their feeling were mutual. This is simple.

What do you get when you fall in love? I answered ; you will get happiness, love and care and a girl. Which is true. There's no way you gonna fall in love with tree, animal or yourself. That's crazy.

But what I has experience before, Normally, love is like one way street. You will give and whatever you get will be never as much as you give. The only tales I always heard are broken hearted, alone, loneliness, sadness just to name a few.

Love is a game, a business proposal. If you are the great player, a great and smart businessman; you will sustain in this game or business. But if you are the lousy player, or a bad businessman, it won't grow. It die.

We are paying the heavy price for love. Every love has it own price, stories and creativity.
And also, love will lead you to pain. The pain of misses, the pain of love or sadness or anything.

As for me, I chose not to answer in detail since I also a lousy player but I am the risk taker. I always go for my dream, for what I want. I never afraid to say what I have in mind. And yet I know; with all the risk I have take, somehow I know it will hurt me later.

The subject has took hours of my time yesterday, thinking on what do we get when we fall in love. I remember what Elvis Castello said in is song; I will never fall in love again.

What do you get when you fall in love?
A girl with a pin to burst your bubble
That's what you get for all your trouble
I'll never fall in love again
I'll never fall in love again

What do you get when you kiss a girl
You get enough germs to catch pneumonia
After you do, she'll never phone you
I'll never fall in love again
I'll never fall in love again

Don't tell me what it's all about
Cause I've been there and I'm glad I'm out
Out of those chains those chains that bind you
That is why I'm here to remind you

What do you get when you give your heart
You get it all broken up and battered
That's what you get, a heart that's shattered
I'll never fall in love again
I'll never fall in love again

Out of those chains those chains that bind you
That is why I'm here to remind you

What do you get when you fall in love?
You only get lies and pain and sorrow
So for at least until tomorrow
I'll never fall in love again
I'll never fall in love again

I'll never fall in love again
I'll never fall in love again

Have you ever heard something that's happy in this song?
I don't think so~