Monday, February 14, 2011

365 Days of Love

Greeting blogger.
First of all, Happy Valentine's Day to all eventhough I am not celebrating it.

14th February is the most busiest day throughtout the year for those who in relationship, in the process to secure a heart or for those who's in love. Today is the special day; a very extraordinary day where all roses selling fast like a bus ticket to ride home for Hari Raya and also the day a bouquet of roses will cost you 1 month expences for foods.
Peoples will get busy to prepare something special for their love ones and also dodgy medical leaves. ~Sigh~

But enlight me with something; for 365 days per year, why only 14Feb to show some extraordinary love to your partner? Why only today to show that you're really passionate, really in love with them while you can do it everyday?
Something that I couldn't understand until this very day. Many people came to me and said
"Someday, when you're really head over heel on someone, you will understand" but to tell you something. I has gone through 6 of 14 February with 5 different peoples and I still can't find my way to understand the fact of why be speacial only this 14th?

I don't celebrate it but I know how it feel since I have my valentine 356 times per year. I don't need one special date to show how love I am to my partner or, how I care for her.

Come on. What will you get in this 14th? Roses with overpaid prices?, places packed with peoples? massive traffic jam? Why have to pay RM86 for dozen of roses on 14th while you can get it for Rm16 per dozen in other day? Why have to hassel your way to a restaurant pack with peoples while you can have comfort, peace of mind dinner in other day?

I am saying this not in the prospect that I can't afford to pay all of these, I capable to pay RM300 for a dozen of roses if I want to but why need to waste your money on 14th?

The best thing is to take the time off on 14th and spend sometimes alone yourself to think what's the best for your relationship, what's the best for your future and how to make it more solid and sustainable.

Remember, you not only have 1 day to celebrate your love a year, but you have 365 days to celebrate it. 1 day can't make any different.

People will always know what's on 14th February forever but what's on 12 Rabiuawal?
I know. How about you?


Friday, February 11, 2011

What's your thought on love?

What's your thought on love?
I need your opinion when it come to love~

Drop me comments on this~

What Do You Get When You Fall In Love?

It's the last day of my weekends. Guess I am getting lazy to go to work on Sunday. With less than 10 days before my event, Lets hope there's last minute booking.

I have sit down together with group of friends over the weekends. Chilling out for Starbucks like I always does every weekends. The conversation based on our daily work tasks, things we have seen for the past 5 days, things occurs to us everyday and suddenly; One of us has popped the topic on what do we get when we fall in love.

This is something that I will never expect from him. The subject was obviously simple. What do we get? but the answer are not as simple as the question. Love is subjective and each of people have the different perception on love. It turned out that he's was head over heels on one girl he met before. Their feeling were mutual. This is simple.

What do you get when you fall in love? I answered ; you will get happiness, love and care and a girl. Which is true. There's no way you gonna fall in love with tree, animal or yourself. That's crazy.

But what I has experience before, Normally, love is like one way street. You will give and whatever you get will be never as much as you give. The only tales I always heard are broken hearted, alone, loneliness, sadness just to name a few.

Love is a game, a business proposal. If you are the great player, a great and smart businessman; you will sustain in this game or business. But if you are the lousy player, or a bad businessman, it won't grow. It die.

We are paying the heavy price for love. Every love has it own price, stories and creativity.
And also, love will lead you to pain. The pain of misses, the pain of love or sadness or anything.

As for me, I chose not to answer in detail since I also a lousy player but I am the risk taker. I always go for my dream, for what I want. I never afraid to say what I have in mind. And yet I know; with all the risk I have take, somehow I know it will hurt me later.

The subject has took hours of my time yesterday, thinking on what do we get when we fall in love. I remember what Elvis Castello said in is song; I will never fall in love again.

What do you get when you fall in love?
A girl with a pin to burst your bubble
That's what you get for all your trouble
I'll never fall in love again
I'll never fall in love again

What do you get when you kiss a girl
You get enough germs to catch pneumonia
After you do, she'll never phone you
I'll never fall in love again
I'll never fall in love again

Don't tell me what it's all about
Cause I've been there and I'm glad I'm out
Out of those chains those chains that bind you
That is why I'm here to remind you

What do you get when you give your heart
You get it all broken up and battered
That's what you get, a heart that's shattered
I'll never fall in love again
I'll never fall in love again

Out of those chains those chains that bind you
That is why I'm here to remind you

What do you get when you fall in love?
You only get lies and pain and sorrow
So for at least until tomorrow
I'll never fall in love again
I'll never fall in love again

I'll never fall in love again
I'll never fall in love again

Have you ever heard something that's happy in this song?
I don't think so~

Keep rocking Gary in heaven!

6th Feb has been one of my sadness moment in my life when I heard the news of Robert William Gary Moore has died. He's a great man and a great player. He's my inspiration. I grew up with his songs, I lived in his songs. He's crying guitar melodrama and he's one of the kind. The blues and jazzy tunes he played was still the best in the world despite of having so many guitar figures in the world.
He's a loss to this world.

Look back what his songs has done to me, The song he had was a saviour, was a shelter when I am down, when I am heartbroken or alone. His songs has the power of healing, his words has deepest meaning. A meaning of love, painful, happiness just to name a few.

He maybe dead but his soul will lives forever.
Rest In Peace

Robert William Gary Moore (4 April 1952 – 6 February 2011)

What Do You Want From Me?

What Do Women Really Want From Men

I supposed this question existed ever since the time the human race first set foot on Earth. Some men even spend their entire lives trying to figure out what women really want, and this is especially true if they are dating or even have been married for years and yet are at a loss over this perplexing question.

Are girls that really hard to understand? Is this the reason why some people think that women are from Venus and men came from Mars? There are so many theories and concepts to justify this phenomenon, but many of these theories are in conflict with each other making the question even more perplexing.

The mainstream thinking is that women demand utter compliance and respect from their men and thus many men play subservient roles to please their women so that they can be accepted. However, many of these men seem to get rejected by those they are trying hard to please and are being dumped when playing this subservient role. On the other hand, those supposedly "bad boys" who seem somewhat a little cocky and wouldn't give a heck to women seem to have girls clawing all over them. What on earth is happening here?

Well, many years of studying the whims of the fairer sex, I have made up some of my own conclusions as to what really women want from men. Let's put it this way, just imagine what nature created us to be which is women are feminine and men are masculine. Duh? Let me elaborate.

First, let me ask you a question. When you think of masculine men, who are those who come to your mind? Brad Pitt, Jean-Claude Van Damme , Arnold Schwarzenegger or even Batman? Okay, I am stretching your imagination a wee bit here, but you do get the picture.

Like it or not, women are psychologically programmed to adore the classic strong and confident man. Men who have leadership characteristics, who can kick butts when they need to and yet are gentlemanly and who can protect their women. This gives the ladies a wonderful sense of security and warmth.

I don't mean that you should go out picking fights and beat up other guys. The days of bringing home the enemy's scalp for home or rather cave decorations are just not the in ting anymore. We are not savages of the past. All you need to do is to portray that you can give your woman warmth and security, able to bring home the bacon and are respected socially is enough to turn any woman on.

An example as to how you can show this masculine attribute is to become a decision maker. Do not ask women out for dates by asking what they want to do or like to do. Just take the lead and decide where you want to go and what you want to do, then simply invite her along. Sometimes you don't even need to tell her your plans. Keep a little mystery and get the sexual tension up and she will be very excited about the night out with you.

Show women that you are in charge and she will let you take charge. Show women that you are only out to please her and she will think of you as a wimp and that is not being very masculine, isn't it?

Women also need to have social proof to confirm that you are a well liked and are well respected by your peers. If other people can respect you, then you are certainly respectable to her. So if others think that you are an awesome guy, then you must be awesome indeed!

This is especially so if other women enjoy your company and think that you are a greatest guy on earth to be with. She you take it as an endorsement by other girls that you will make a great mate and she will be lapping up to you even more. So go and mix with the girls and you will attract even more of them.

Another thing that you should know is to make yourself appealing to her emotion, not her logic. Women want men to make them feel good and comfortable. Her primitive instinct is that she will spend the rest of her life with you and if the you cannot feel good and secured, then the rest of her life with you will be a miserable one.

So make women laugh frequently because laughter makes people produce more endorphin which is a feel good hormone which is also produced when people are having sex and if you are able to do that, you will come across as being very sexy indeed.

So when you are able to communicate on an emotional level with women, you will definitely be much more successful with them.

So what do women really want from their men? The answer is actually very simple. They want men who can take charge, who are confident and can make decisions and men who can provide them warmth, security and emotional connection. In other words, women want to be with masculine men, the confident alpha male. Are you up to the challenge?

P/S: I have no right to claim on this article. Thank you to Chris Chew for this amazing write-up~

I like you too~

How to know if a Girl likes you

If you are head over heals love with a girl definitely you would want to know if she likes you or not. Most Guys find women a mystery. But knowing the interest level of the girl is very important if you want to take a relationship forward or to decide if you are wasting your time on her or not. If the Man knows that the Woman is interested in him it would also give him the confidence to ask her on dates and more! However, knowing her interest level may not be very difficult if you watch her behavioral pattern and body language when you are with her. If you find that she is not interested in you it is time to move forward or cut your losses and move on to the next one.

How to find out if a Girl is interested in you
Not all women are the same. Still, she may give away signals that she likes you or dislike you through her looks, behavior or body language. It is not wrong to say that words and mannerisms of a person can convey a lot about that person. Here are 16 things to watch out to find if she is interested in you.

She likes talking and spending time with you: If a girl likes you she will not refuse an opportunity to see you or talk to you. She always would find an excuse to talk with you or spend time with you. When you talk she listens to you with interest and tries to gather more information about you. If she participates in the conversation, gives long answers and asks you questions in response it is a positive sign. She would gaze at you and smile often when you are with her or lean close when speaking to you. You may even notice that her eyes lit up when she notices you around. On the other hand if he does not like you she may not participate in the conversation or may give clipped responses for your enquiries. If she is looking around while you talk to her shows her lack of interest in you and the fact that she probably wants someone different to talk to.

She gives her Contact Number: If a girl likes you she would trust you enough to pass on her mobile number, private email or chat name without hesitation so that that the two of you could be in touch. She may even allow you to drop you at her doorstep or would invite you in for a coffee. When there are other eligible Guys around you and the girl gives her contact number only to you it is a positive sign that she certainly likes you. Take it as a signal from her and ask her for a date after you have spoke to her over phone one or two times to know her better. When you talk to her on the phone she may start talking immediately without waiting for you to start the conversation. If she is looking for an excuse to hang up then she might not be interested in you. She may even find excuses to talk to you often and may call you without waiting for you to call her if she likes you. She may find excuses for chatting with you for hours together and even discusses her experiences or inner dreams.

She introduces you to her Friends and Family: If a girl likes you she would not have problems with others seeing her with you. She may even introduce you to her friends or family or even brag about you to them. If she likes you she would be honest in her opinions and instead of passing flattering complements may tell you things or habits you need to change in order to be a better person without insulting you.

She touches you often: If the girl touches you often while you are talking or walking together or does not move away when you accidentally brush up against her or intentionally touch her she may like you. However, ifshe isn't touching you it may not mean that she doesn't like you. May be she is too nervous of you to touch you yet. If a girl holds eye contact with you then this is a good sign that she is interested in you. Some girls may even blush when you look at them if they like you.

She mimics you in your Actions: If there is a liking then you may be able to detect signs of mimicking. In fact this is an unconscious thing and indication that she is interested. Some examples for this can be taking a drink together or leaning back against the chair at the same time.

She gets Jealous when she sees you with other Girls: If you are friends with the girl and notice signs of jealousy when you talk with other girls it is a sign that she really likes you and you can try taking your relationship to the next level. She may even try to distract or interrupt you when she sees you with other girls.

She laughs at your Jokes:If a girl likes you she may even laugh or giggle at your normally boring or stupidest of all jokes. If her smile is a fake or polite one or if she frowns and looks away she is not interested in you.

She may even Flirt with you Openly:If a girl likes you she may even flirt with you openly in order to get the message across to you that she is interested in you. There may be seasoned flirts but if flirting is out of character for the girl whom you are trying to know is interested in you then in all probability she likes you. But Beware do not flirt around with other girls when she is around you as she may jump to conclusions and assume that you are not interested in her.

She brags about you: If a girl likes you it is quite natural for her to talk about you to her close friends. Sometimes you may notice her friends teasing her when they spot you or other friends glancing back at you and smiling or giggling which may mean that she was telling her friends about you. When you come near to her she might stop talking all of a sudden which can mean that you were the subject of the recently ended conversation.

You may meet her accidentally very often: When a girl likes you she may try to frequent places you go often or find some reason to be in places where you go to so that she would be able to see you. She may even find stupid reasons to talk to you or try to be around you as much as she can.

She is conscious of her looks when you are around: If a girl likes you she tries to be at her best when you are around. She would normally be well groomed and looking beautiful than she looks normally. You may even notice her touching her hair, neck, lips or clothing when she is in front of you.

She may play hard to get: If a woman likes you she may play games with you as she knows that a man would not appreciate anything for longer which may not come to him easily. She may ignore the Guy so that the Guy would chase her as guys like challenges. In fact majority of women like to be a challenge and feel that any male who cannot work hard to get them are not worthy of her.

She is comfortable with you: If a girl feels comfortable and secured in your company in all probability she likes you. If she is feeling threatened or trying to avoid meeting you or spending time with you she may not like you. If she feels comfortable and secured she would be herself around you and without pretences and would be comfortable talking to you about almost anything. She may even not hesitate to ask you out on a date.

She would go out of her way to help you: If a woman likes you she may go out of the way to be helpful to you when you have a problem or when you need help. She always would have a word of encouragement or support when you are feeling. If she comes to know that you are sick she might call you immediately or even visit you because she is concerned about you.

She remembers your special Days: If a girl likes you she would make sure that she remembers your Birthday or may even get you a gift. If she comes to know about an achievement you made she would immediately call you and congratulate you. She may even ask you for a party from you as an excuse to see you. She may even buy you small gifts for no reason at all.

She talks of a Future together: If a girl likes you when she talks about her future she may mention you in it. She may even share her long term dreams or aspirations with you.

All girls consciously or unconsciously send out at least some of the above signs or signals. Look out for mannerisms and body language of the girl to determine the interest level in you. I sincerely hope that this article would be an eye opener to Guys who want to know if the girls are interested in them. Have I left out something? Please feel free to add them through comments.

Friday, February 4, 2011


Something that really hard to describe.
That's the first thing comes inside my mind when I watch this movie called Hachi.
This is the movie based on the true event involve the love, loyalty, and friendship.
Something that I will never have a thought on it. Something unique about friendship.
Something that I really wanted to have in life.

I managed to hold my tears throughout the whole movie.
The man newly found happiness beside than his family. A dog. An Akita Dog called Hachiko.
I can't believed how sad the stories are. How it touch every single viewer's heart deeply.
Playing with the emotions of humankind.

The story begin like this;
In the modern day, a class full of young students is giving oral presentations about personal heroes. A boy named Ronnie stands up and begins to tell of 'Hachiko', his grandfather's dog. Years before, an Akita puppy is sent from Japan to the United States, but his cage falls off the baggage cart at an American train station, where he is found by college professor Parker Wilson (Richard Gere). Parker is instantly captivated by the dog. When Carl, the station controller, refuses to take him, Parker takes the puppy home overnight. His wife Cate (Joan Allen) is insistent about not keeping the puppy.

The next day Parker expects that someone will have contacted the train station, but no one has. He sneaks the pup onto the train and takes him to work, where a Japanese college professor, Ken, translates the symbol on the pup's collar as 'Hachi', Japanese for 'good fortune', and the number 8. Parker decides to call the dog 'Hachi'. Ken points out that perhaps the two are meant to be together. Parker attempts to play fetch with Hachi, but he refuses to join in. Meanwhile Cate receives a call about someone wanting to adopt Hachi. After seeing how close her husband has come to Hachi, however, Cate agrees that they can keep him.

A few years later, Hachi and Parker are as close as ever. Parker, however, is still mystified by Hachi's refusal to do normal, dog-like things like chase and retrieve a ball. Ken advises him that Hachi will only bring him the ball for a special reason. One morning, Parker leaves for work and Hachi sneaks out and follows him to the train station, where he refuses to leave until Parker walks him home. That afternoon, Hachi sneaks out again and walks to the train station, waiting patiently for Parker's train to come in. Eventually Parker relents and walks Hachi to the station every morning, where he leaves on the train. Hachi leaves after Parker's safe departure, but comes back in the afternoon to see his master's train arrive and walk with him home again. This continues for some time, until one afternoon Parker attempts to leave, but Hachi barks and refuses to go with him. Parker eventually leaves without him, but Hachi chases him, holding his ball. Parker is surprised but pleased that Hachi is finally willing to play fetch the ball with him. Worried that he will be late for the college, Professor Parker leaves on the train despite Hachi barking at him. At work that day Parker, still holding Hachi's ball, is teaching his music class when he suddenly suffers a heart attack and dies.

At the train station, Hachi waits patiently as the train arrives, but there is no sign of Parker. He remains, lying in the snow, for several hours, until Parker's son-in-law Michael comes to collect him. The next day, Hachi returns to the station and waits, remaining all day and all night. As time passes, Cate sells the house and Hachi is sent to live with her daughter Andy, Michael, and their new baby Ronnie. However, at the first opportunity, he escapes and eventually finds his way back to his old house and then to the train station, where he sits at his usual spot, eating hot dogs given to him by Jas, a local vendor. Andy arrives soon after and takes him home, but lets him out the next day to return to the station.

Hachi begins sleeping under a broken train carriage, keeping vigil during the day and surviving off food and water given to him by Jas and the local butcher. One day, a man named Teddy, a newspaper reporter, inquires about Hachi and asks if he can write a story about him. People begin to send money to Carl to buy Hachi food. Ken, Parker's friend, reads the article, and offers to pay for Hachi's upkeep. He realizes that although it has been a year, Hachi wants to, and has to, wait for his master, and wishes him a long life. "If Hachiko must wait, then Hachiko must wait," as Ken says.

Years pass, and still Hachi waits. Cate visits Parker's grave, where she meets Ken, and she says that even though it has been a decade, she still misses him. Arriving at the station, she is stunned to see Hachi, old, dirty and weak, still maintaining his vigil. Overcome, Cate sits and waits for the next train with him. At home, Cate tells the now ten-year-old Ronnie about Hachi. That night, Hachi makes his way to his usual spot, where he lies down and falls asleep for the last time, dreaming of his master, and later sees a vision of Parker who picks him up in a joyous reunion before their spirits rise to heaven.
Ronnie, back in his classroom, finishes his report, telling his classmates that Hachi, for his love and loyalty, will forever be his hero. That afternoon, he walks his own Akita puppy named Hachi along the same track his grandfather once walked with his own Hachi.

This is really sad to see how a dog, A god creation who has less mind and emotion can perform such loyalty to human. It's true when people say, " We give them home, shelter and love, they will give you their soul and life back"

It really touch my heart to see this, A joy of waiting, A joy to meet again to someone who we really care and love. To be honest, I am crying inside.

Only if human can be like that..