Reminder to Shez~

When you love a girl, sometimes it is best just to tell her, even if you are not sure if the feeling is mutual.

Know that even if she doesn't love you, it is a relief to get this off your chest.
Don't make a big production of it. Just give it to her straight. Acting like a drama king/queen could make her reject you. Don't get angry with her if she says no.

Remember, loving someone is not something people plan or do on purpose. Strong feelings like love arise from emotional stimulation, not choice and go easy on her, since telling her that you love her might be a bit overwhelming for her, and she may need a minute or two to think about it.

Wait for the right moment. Don't tell her you love her when either one of you is amongst friends. Wait until you are alone. But when you are, don't wait to tell her. Respect her reaction. If she doesn't love you back, your life isn't over; it may hurt, but that's how she feels.

Make sure that you are sure you are ready for the emotional roller coaster of love. There are highs and there are lows; if you are just thinking of saying it to get laid, DON'T. If you really love someone, you will respect them, care for them, and be there for the good and the bad. Are you ready for that?

and

"I love you" is a statement, not a question. don't expect an answer, because it doesn't exist.